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Katie Bertola's avatar

THIS! I think a lot of women experienced this loneliness during girlhood. It sticks with you for a long time. I think humility, that virtue that makes us think of ourselves less, is one of those Spirit-wrought traits that makes us soft toward others. Not weak, not vulnerable — but bravely soft. Not afraid to be hurt.

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Lish Andres's avatar

Bravely soft! I love that so much, Katie! Yes it takes a lot of humility and courage to soften. Thank you for this encouraging comment!

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Katie Bertola's avatar

Alisa Childers likes to say, Let’s keep a sharp mind, soft heart, and thick skin. 💜

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Kiya Taylor's avatar

What a beautifully soft and buttery read, Lish! I too find this deeply relatable and has given me much to reflect on. Thank you 💜

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Lish Andres's avatar

Thank you so much for reading, Kiya. I love that you connected with this piece, friendship can be so complex.

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Carly Cryar's avatar

I find this deeply relatable. I struggle more to build friendships as an adult, it never came easy to me either. Beautiful piece, thanks for sharing.

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Lish Andres's avatar

Thank you so much, Carly. I’m so glad this resonated with you.

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Lish Andres's avatar

Thank you so much for reading, Yui! I’m so glad you connected with this!

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